Bachelor Matt James, Rachael Kirkconnell’s Relationship Timeline

Matt James and Rachael Kirkconnell’s Bachelor love story was a journey — on and off screen.

ABC named Matt the season 25 lead in June 2020, subsequently revealing that the series received a record number of submissions for contestants. Among the 38 women who had the opportunity to meet Matt was Rachael, a graphic designer from Georgia. While she didn’t receive the coveted first impression rose (Abigail Heringer did), she caught Matt’s eye on night one. (Season 25 of The Bachelor filmed at Nemacolin Resort in the fall of 2020 and premiered in January 2021.)

While Matt and Rachael were dropping L-bombs on the series, she was making headlines for her past racially insensitive actions, including photos of her at an “Old South”-themed frat party in 2018. The controversy escalated after Chris Harrison asked for fans to have “grace” for Rachael as they navigated the scandal. The Georgia native broke her silence in February 2021, two days after the host’s interview and more than one month since she initially came under fire. Rachael’s mother, Kim Kirkconnell, also defended her daughter and hinted at how the situation might affect their potential happy ending.

“If he chooses Rachael, and stands by her, then you know Matt does truly love her,” Kim told The Sun. “If he chooses Rachael, and then leaves her, then it was not meant to be, and there is someone else out there for her.”

During The Bachelor: After the Final Rose in March 2021, fans learned that Matt and Rachael called it quits while the show was airing. One month later, the twosome rekindled their relationship. Matt and Rachael dated for four years before he announced their split in January 2025.

Scroll through for a complete timeline of Matt and Rachael’s relationship: